Monday, January 26, 2009

Release of Book (Win Your Horse's Heart)


WIN YOUR HORSE'S HEART
(Be a Better Horseman)

Sherry's book will be available March first 2009

It is a must-read for those who love horses.
This is a "horse" book but really it is even more than that.

It is about building relationships with trust respect and love.

It is about self-acceptance, making choices, problem solving, and allowing for compromise.

It is about effective communication, leadership and confidence.

This is an important book about our self-discovery of the need for a makeover
for the way we think about and interact with horses.
A way which is more natural from the horse's point of view.

This book tells stories of life lessons which horses can teach us.
And how a good partnership improves our quality of life.

But most of all it is about winning a horse's heart in an unselfish way.

For ages the relationship between man and horse has been both positive and negative.
This is truly an amazing time in the horse world where horses are kept
more for their beauty and companionship than out of necessity.

We live in a time when a very few people can make a very big difference for horses everywhere. We hope you will help us make a difference in the lives of horses and horse lovers by ordering a copy and passing the word about this book along to your friends and associates.

Book Synopsis:

There are only two kinds of people, those who love horses and those who don't. This book is definitely for those who do love horses, whether you own one or not. Sherry's passion and love for horses has driven her to write a book which presents a way of being with horses which will change your way of thinking and acting so you can win any horse's heart. When a horse gives you his whole heart he will jump higher, run faster, stop quicker, slide further, spin better, and be safer. There is nothing you can't do together when a horse becomes a part of you. Dreams are sure to come true to those who follow the common sense principles presented in this book with real life stories to support the practices.

You will learn what it means to be natural with a horse and how to develop a working partnership. You will gain more knowledge and insight about attitudes which can help eliminate frustrations with horses. You will discover practical ways to overcome fears, build confidence, communicate more effectively and become the kind of leader your horse needs you to be. The personal horse stories will touch your heart as you realize that winning a horse's heart is the ultimate prize in horsemanship.

The book will be available the first of March. You can get it on Amazon.com and Barnes and Noble

High Headed Horse

Question: I am shopping for a new horse. One of the horses I am considering seems to be quite high headed. Is this something I should be concerned about, or can I fix it after I buy the horse?
Answer:
If being high headed is an occasional thing as a result of the horses trying to look at something far off in the distance or being afraid of something new then that would be a natural reaction, which I wouldn’t be too concerned about. However, if the horse is carrying his head high most of the time while being ridden no matter what the circumstance or who is riding him, then I would be somewhat concerned. Of course, all problems are solvable with all horses if you have enough savvy and time. It just depends on how good your feel is, how well you can read the horse, and how much time you are willing to spend with the horse to cure the problem. The more engrained the problem is the more skill you will need and the longer it will take to fix it because it has become a habit for the horse.

High headedness is just evidence of something else being out of whack. Usually if you remove the cause of the evidence the problem will solve itself. A horse who is high headed is thinking about evasion. He is seeking to relieve some kind of pressure. The first thing I would do is investigate the mechanical side of the problem. Is there any pressure causing physical discomfort for the horse? If I can eliminate mechanical problems then I need to look at the mental and emotional aspect. Is the horse being force or intimidated into performance without understanding which has caused the horse to brace in his body, especially his head and neck? Does the handler or rider have poor feel and timing causing confusion, fear, or resentment?

When looking for physical discomfort I would recommend starting with having a vet check his teeth. Does he have wolf teeth or a broken tooth which would give the horse reason to avoid a bit? Second check saddle fit. An ill-fitting saddle can cause a horse to lift his head and neck up to try to relieve pressure. Third have a vet or good farrier check his soundness. Old injuries or long term discomfort will cause the horse to adjust the way he carries himself in order to ease some pain in another area of his body.

Fourth, video and watch objectively your riding skill. A person can inadvertently cause physical discomfort to the horse with poor riding. If you watch the smaller things that indicate what is bothering the horse right before he throws his head up in the air you may be surprised that you are causing the problem. The horse may be trying to get away from your poor hands, bouncing seat, or legs which are squeezing while at the same time pulling back on the reins. When a rider’s body is more in tune with the horse’s body the horse will relax and lower his head. Learning about the timing and placement of the horse’s feet is a must when working to help a high headed horse quit this habit. Teaching the horse to give his head and neck in soft supple lateral flexion will go a long way in helping this horse quit bracing which results in a raised head.

If relieving any known physical discomfort doesn’t fix the problem then we have to look at the mental and emotional reasons the horse has developed this undesirable habit. A high head horse may have been starred at in the eye, dealt with too firmly, at too close of distance, too often which has caused his defensive behavior. Quick hands, loud voices, lots of motion right in front of the horse where he has no space for himself so he can lower his head in his own world can put too much mental pressure on the horse. When this happens the horse doesn’t feel secure enough to lower his head and be himself in your presence.

A horse that has been punished in the face will create high headedness on the ground and it can transfer to riding. This will take the horse some time to get over. If a horse has this kind of history I would recommend less touching on his face for quite a while. Wait until he presents his head to you. When he is ready he’ll look to you for affection or support at the place where he has been traumatized.

Unless a high headed horse’s spirits been broken he still has a tremendous amount of instinct that will work in your favor which you can use to help him break this defensive behavior. Use his natural curiosity about what is going on around him, and his inborn willingness to get along and be of service to your advantage. Slow down and give him a chance to get his confidence back.

Here are a few more ideas which might help you succeed faster with a confirmed high headed horse where you have eliminated physical discomfort as being the main problem and have determined the main issue is mental or emotional. When you bring this horse home the best thing to do may be to leave him alone for a while. Let him be with other horses, and get adjusted to a new environment in his own way and in his own time. When you approach him the first few times, don’t put a hand on him any closer than the shoulder. You might even go to the hip first brush his tail then walk away.

Next I would suggest a few sessions of bucket sitting with him. Let the first move be his toward you. Set it up so he has to reach down and toward you. Whatever you do DON’T reach up to him, remember let him come down toward you then you can touch him. This will be the start of him feeling comfortable with his head down around you, until it becomes the new habit. When you halter him make sure you don’t follow his head up, wait for him to come down to you. Try to position him so you set up his shoulders and hips where it causes him to want to reach down.

The habit of being high headed is usually a product of handling which doesn’t encourage the opposite, or is a result of something being out of whack. So if you think you can determine what is out of whack and encourage a more desirable habit then I would say you could fix this problem given enough savvy and time.

If you have other questions for Sherry you can e-mail her at sherry@heartinyourhand.com , attend one of her horsemanship clinics, camps or lessons, visit her website at www.heartinyourhand.com, or read her newly released book “Win Your Horse’s Heart (Be a Better Horseman)

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Book Synopsis "Win Your Horse's Heart"


This is going to be an exciting year because the book which I have been working on for the past four years is finally complete. It will be hot off the press just in time for the NE Horse Expo March 13-15, 2009. Like many projects it has taken longer, is over budget and has been more work than I expected. The last few weeks since it has been with the publisher has been even more stressful. Thankfully we are on our final edit, we have chosen a picture for the cover and started the design layout. With hard work and luck we should be able to meet our deadline of having printed copies by the first of March.

People have been asking me how many pages it will be and how much it will cost. I do not have an exact quote just yet, as we are still in the design layout phase. However a good estimate is it will be around 200 pages and cost between $15 and $20. If you want a signed copy I hope to have about 500 copies at the Expo. After that it will be available through myself personally, (hand to hand at one of my clinics, I will not be shipping copies) But you can order it through any of the on-line book sellers like: Amazon.com, Barns and Noble, etc. It will be in bookstores of those who choose to carry it, or they can order it for you.

Book Synopsis
There are only two kinds of people, those who love horses and those who don't. This book is definitely for those who do love horses, whether you own one or not. Sherry's passion and love for horses has driven her to write a book which presents a way of being with horses which will change your way of thinking and acting so you can win any horse's heart. When a horse gives you his whole heart he will jump higher, run faster, stop quicker, slide further, spin better, and be safer. There is nothing you can't do together when a horse becomes a part of you. Dreams are sure to come true to those who follow the common sense principles presented in this book with real life stories to support the practices.

You will learn what it means to be natural with a horse and how to develop a working partnership. You will gain more knowledge and insight about attitudes which can help eliminate frustrations with horses. You will discover practical ways to overcome fears, build confidence, communicate more effectively and become the kind of leader your horse needs you to be. The personal horse stories will touch your heart as you realize that winning a horse's heart is the ultimate prize in horsemanship.

For a sneak preview into the personal horse stories in the book watch the video on Youtube: "A Lifetime Horsemanship Journey".

Here are some of the comments about the video:

Oh my gosh, I love the youtube!!! Great job.

It's beautiful, Sherry.

I loved it!

Absolutely beautiful, Sherry.

This was so very moving Sherry. I cried when I saw Sunshine jump the barrels because I know how long it took to get her the confidence to do that.

Wonderful Sherry - brought tears to my eyes. I paused through a bunch of the pictures to study them. You have some nice shots and heartfelt words to go with them. Can't wait for the book. Hope you can get it by Expo.

I very much enjoyed your video.

They are beautiful creatures....could never have one not enough land for one...blessings to you and all your horse babies.

AWESOME video!! LOVE it!! There was quite a LOT of emotions packed into that video ...good job!!

I hope you will watch the video and get a copy of the book when it arrives. I think you will be blessed by both, plus I promise you will learn a thing or two which will improve the relationship with your horse even more.

This is what my professional editor had to say about the book after receiving it:

"Good work on the book. I really learned a lot reading it. I've ridden infrequently and casually (never owned a horse) since I was a kid, so it was very helpful. Let's get it polished and get it out there."

To pre-order a copy of the book e-mail sherry or call 308-346-5663.
She will sign it and write a personal message inside if you order by March 12, 2009.